Not just a Pet Psychic

Career Parenting Lifecoach

StressLess

Practise 1 Gratitude… for Career success?!

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I refer to it as 1gm of gratitude.
What makes my work different?! 

What immediately comes to my mind when I get questions like:

  • Is my dog picking up on my work stress?
  • How do I know if my dog feels truly fulfilled, not just cared for?
  • Unexplained lethargy in dogs when a vet checkup shows everything is fine
  • Energetic cleansing for home environment when a pet is anxious

Is that “this pet parent has A) leadership qualities and B) is one who is genuinely invested in the welfare of their pet dog”

Do you see how a lifetime of memories begins with 1gm of gratitude..?!

So, what makes my work different?!
I do not certify, I do not train… I go beyond a piece of paper.
Blossom and me are your Gratitude team.

We hold space in which to reflect upon such questions together, patiently allowing all the noise inside your head an exit, a structured channel to release, to dissolve.

Think of it this way. As an experienced Chef, you know exactly how to elevate a meal with just a pinch of that one right ingredient. This is what applying gratitude consistently does too!

Apply it how? Apply it where?!
The perspective of Gratitude applied to a stressful day allows the masked star element to shine through, fading out the unnecessary unpleasantness of stress.

Ready to try this right now?!
Say, my stress point today as a working pet dog parent is:
How do I find out if my dog is picking up on my work stress?
The 1st five minute reflection window I get, I shall write the answer in 3 bullet points after asking myself:
“What about this question can I be grateful for?”

For me, this will read as:

  1. I am grateful to notice the probable shift of feelings in my pet dog.
  2. I am grateful to have the definitive goal of stressing less to attempt to work towards this week.
  3. I am grateful to have experienced unconditional love towards myself.

☛ Is this not a much better use of my time?!
☛ Is this not a much productive outlet to honouring the emotion my pet dog is probably trying to convey to me?!
☛ Does this not make me a much better leader at my job?!

  1. Focused work concluded on time.
  2. Appreciation in the form of monetary benefits at work.
  3. A healthier positive outlook to my day.
  4. Energy to play with my pet dog.
  5. Restful sleep at night.

Such tangible benefits follow suit!

Hey! We are Vrushali and Blossom, you Gratitude Parenting Mentors.
Vrushali is now a home maker, parent and dogs’ mum.
Blossom, her 6YO Golden and soul sister from another lifetime nudged Vrushali towards her life purpose of being a practicing Telepathy Channel. 
Which is why the tagline: “I am not just a pet psychic”!

Being a corporate Alumni with experience of more than a decade working in UK public sector, Indian corporate training vertical, etc alongwith being a CSR volunteer awardee, Vrushali totally understands the pressure of perfection that leaders struggle with at their workplace.

These same leaders attempt to transform into caring spouses and parents with their family.

Surely 1gm of Gratitude will do wonders!
Shall we implement and continue this journey together?!

Thank you for your time!

Because you enjoyed reading this and want just a little more, the following might be for you:
I have designed a wallet sized 1gm of gratitude card which reminds me to re-apply my stress positively, by staying in gratitude.
It makes me go awwww every time I open my wallet. See if it centers you?


My dog keeps making a mess.. Help!

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Hanna is having a tiresome week because of her dogs, and we talked her through it.

dog made a mess

What happened:-

While Hanna goes to work, her 2 dogs stay home with the rest of the family- a mum, sister and boyfriend.

She has a loving happy relationship with them that’s 8 years strong…. with only 1 complaint. 

“Can you not leave smelly presents; howl the place down when I go to work?!”

After a tiring day at work, Hanna wants to look forward to being with her dogs.

Hello friend! Thanks for stopping by! What are YOU doing this week?

🎙Tell us your plans?

Speak it out right here!

Cool! Now back to Hanna’s situation!

I looked up some scientific research that’s been done. It says “science proves that my family dog can help:

💚IMPROVE cardiovascular health 

💚DECREASE stress and lower blood pressure”

Just think how much better Hanna can do at work; even considering corporate pressure situations! 

…If only her dear dogs cooperated!

Hanna rightly looks forward to lots of happy time with her 2 dogs, Daisy and Rosy.

Our Objective:-

1. Give Hanna simple techniques to implement in order to lower her stress

2. Have a telepathic dialogue with her dogs to find out what’s going on and reach some sort of understanding.

Initial findings based on complaints:-

1. The dogs were not Made Aware When they Did a good job.

They didn’t know this is good behavior.

2. Sudden changes in routine were confusing.

We decided to keep trying for atleast 7 days at a stretch and observe the dogs’ understanding capability.

3. Keep a close watch on them at All times.

And when unsupervised, loose leash-tie them.

Progress check:-

1. No potty accidents at night!

2. 1 dog was observed to have anxiety and fear behaviors that make it seem like she’s stubborn and dumb.

3. Humans now starting to understand the training and conversation gaps that were causing the dogs’ misbehavior.

We asked Hanna, “How did this make her day better?” And she replied:

It helps because then, me and my family don’t come home to pee smell in the house😍 It’s wonderful! ⭐⭐⭐

Oy! We forgot to introduce ourselves!

We are BLOSSOM🐶, MARSHAL🐶 and me🙋‍♀️, VRUSHALI!

my family dogs

The dog-ness mentor for frazzled high achieving executives

🐶Blossom is my 5YO Golden Retreiver girl.

🐶Marshal, my boy, is my soulmate guide and 10YO rehomed rescue adult Korean Sheepdog

Here, we are at 1 of our favorite nature spots- a small pond at the bottom of a small hill. Where we freshen up after exploring this lovely gravelly hill!

They are camera-shy! Tongues out more out of being happy-tired rather than for the picture!

Blossom is wearing a fancy bandana (which, she has rolled in cowpoo and muddied 🤷‍♀️😵😂)

(That’s why my website is named Vrushali …And🐶Blossom! Also, my dogs Really guide me to 🌼BLOSSOM into my very best version!)

PS- Your family dog can do the Same for You too!! That’s what we do as dog-ness mentor!

So…. did you find this post ummm.. boring?

There’s Lots more case-study posts like this-

all featuring family animals who, when well behaved are your Best stress buffer!

You get to be IN it!! By sharing the following with us:-

What do you struggle with most..

when it comes to your dog?

📢WAIT ‘TIL YOU HEAR ABOUT it! 🐾

Do you know a busy, stuck and stressed out family dog parent who will Really Benefit from knowing about us?

🎀Care to share this web-page with them?! Thank you!

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My personal journey from frazzled corporate careerwoman to doting dog parent

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Thanks, have a wonderful day😃

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Does a rescue dog need training?

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As a pet parent, my main expectation is for my dogs to
have good manners, ensuring they are well-behaved.
😍While I don’t necessarily expect them to
perform fancy tricks like sitting, shake, or twirling, I do insist on
good manners such as

  • Use of designated toilet areas,
  • Refrain from unnecessary barking,
  • Patiently waiting when asked, and
  • Being polite.
Blog Page About us picture vanddogs

🎁One of the wonderful perks of

adopting an older dog is that they often come with some existing training.

📣However, do rescue dogs still require training? Absolutely!

📣Yet, compared to a brand new puppy, rescue dogs typically require
less intensive training.
📣It is crucial to provide such dogs with the necessary guidance and support.

The learning curve to train older adopted dogs is usually quite short.

💝Consistency is key, and it’s important to keep an eye out for any mischievous behavior!

I was so inspired with parenting my
older rescue dog, Marshal I published an eBook.
Page 21 has an account of Marshal testing his
boundaries, highlighting the need for ongoing attention and
reinforcement of good behavior!

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Purchase the 10dollar eBook here

💝It’s where I share of the time when
Marshal had his neutering operation
and he was very resourceful at scratching out the sticky tape on
the stitches when we were not around
or we were out of sight.
💝To be more specific, not only did Marshal remove the
sticky cotton tape, he swallowed it to leave no evidence- oh yeah, I searched for this Everywhere!

In summary, older adopted dogs are a
sweet spicy delight and totally worth the initial slow introduction into your family

Does this get you excited, hopeful, willing to take
1 step towards thinking about it?

Would a ‘guidebook’ about adoption of an older rescue dog be helpful?

You see, the initial process requires
patience and just a little bit of divine intervention.

So, in order to help wannabe pet parents find
the right rescue dog, I created
a guide book, a template of helpful notes.
It is available for 9dollars

Guidebook My Rescue Pet Dog

I am such a champion of adopting a rescue dog, that this purchase includes
chat support with me.

Any clarifications, concerns you have we shall chat them out.

How? By FB messenger OR Instagram DM OR via email!
Infact, enter your email right here and I shall get in touch.

Thanks for reading this! Do you know of a friend who will
find this information helpful? Would you
share this blog with them right now?

(you see 🐶Blossom and 🐶Marshal get 2 treats for every share 😇)

💚Thank you! Have a treatfilled day!

“….But, I don’t have the time!

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and yet it will be comforting to have a loyal companion for life!”

dog parent

Ummmm… dear busy working career oriented friend
The word you are looking for is dog…. adopted dog 🐶
rehomed dog 🐶
rescue dog 🐶

Before you say anything, just Look 😊 at Moss
and his smiling human in the image above.

Now, adult dogs come to their family
with a Lot of life experience already under their collars.

So if you have questions such as:

♡ Will my life be better with a dog?
♡ When should I own a dog?
♡ I have a busy schedule. How do I know I can take care of a dog?

Then this post is very helpful!

Adult dogs have typically graduated
from the frisky, high-energy puppy phase and

are ready to settle into a routine.

They most always come to you, already house trained and
with some semblance of basic obedience skills

With the right parenting support, Adult Rescue dogs
can make wonderful companions to
goal-oriented senior managers
who want to continue to thrive at work
and also come home to a loving family

Like my Marshal, who adjusted into my family dynamics within the first 30 days.

To the point of even allowing me to open his mouth and
slip in the occasional medicine pill!!

Marshal and pill Tinypanda

It was So Good, we celebrated with his very own instagram reel 👇!

Headsup!!! the 🎧audio is in Hindi language for my regional pet parent friends.

if you don’t need that distraction, turn 🔇OFF the audio!

💩Disgusting? 😵Curious??

we welcome your thoughts!

Adopting an adult dog has been… hands down; one of
my most rewarding experiences as a pet owner!

With a little effort, you can have this for yourself!!!!

Such dogs require very little (yet consistent!) training

Plus, you get Maximum loving companionship

without jumping through too many dog training hoops!

Go ahead and spend time getting to know
your new grown-up furry friend,
establish healthy routines and boundaries,
and bond with them!

So how SHOULD one prioritise what is important
as a goal oriented pet parent?!
What about this would give you the advantage to
really thrive at work and buy back family time?!

Are you open to an experiment starting Right Now?
For the next 7 days, repeat 3 steps daily.
On day 8, send me your results.

What you will need:-
  • Anything to take notes. Pen+Journal,
    A notes app on your phone, Dictate to Siri, etc
  • 20 minutes time twice a day for 7 days
What you will not need:-
  • Any fancy apps
  • Time tracker
  • Special food plan
  • Special sleep habits
  • The need to learn meditation
Okay! Here is Step 1:-
  • When you have time during the day, observe your pet’s behaviour.
    Now really give this some thought; because
    we take a lot of their behaviour characteristics for granted.
  • I will give you an example so that your mind perspective changes.
    My consultation calls are timed for 45 minutes.
    And because we have such interesting discussions,
    they are very engrossing and animated.
    At the 50 minute mark I notice Blossom begins her odd behaviour.
    Until now, she was sleeping, drinking water doing her own thing.
    Now, she yawns, stretches, paces in front of me continually.
    Its so disturbing!
    Now I know it is my cue that I am going over time
    and I need to start winding down!
  • Make a note of such behaviour.
Now for Step 2:-
  • At moments in the day when you feel stress rising,
    look at pictures of your pet.
  • Think about their recent odd behaviour and
    imagine them doing this right now.
  • Does it make you smile?!
Finally, Step 3:-
  • As you wind down for the day, think about TWO experiences
    you had during the day.
    One positive and One unpleasant and give gratitude to both moments.
    You see, both helped you learn from them.
  • Write down the 2 gratitudes’.

That’s it.
On day 8, you should have 14 gratitudes’ to send me as confirmation that you did the 3 steps!
Here is an extra incentive for you! My dog Blossom gets an EXTRA treat
for every 14 gratitudes. Yes, I will send you a picture with the time stamp!

I am also happy to receive text chats from you on social media during the 7 days.

Because you find my method helpful, how do you feel
about gifting a pet parenting eBook to a friend / colleague?

To give them some Major support?!

📢I have a 10 dollar eBook all about

HOW I researched, planned and welcomed my very own adopted dog; Marshal!

eBook Tinypanda

✅Purchase the 10 dollar eBook Printable PDF here!

Many people are led to believe
that adopting adult dogs means
a lot of training and behavioral issues, but
my personal experiences
as recorded in the eBook proves otherwise.

I get snuggles on the couch,
steady walks around the neighborhood with Marshal
proving that age is just a number
when it comes to the love and joy
that a furry friend can bring into our lives.

That’s all for now.
We Absolutely Enjoy talking all things dog.

Please speak your thoughts to us here 👇!

🎊🙋‍♀️I look forward to hearing about your pets!

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Preface!

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10 years ago while shopping at

UK, Leeds

Victoria Quarter, Leeds, UK, I would’ve 😛stuck my tongue out (rudely), had someone said to me;

“Vrushali, your life will be more fun and rewarding…. because of dogs”

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The methods I chose include:

  • Altering my home layout,
  • Use better methods of transportation,
  • Thoughtful energy consumption and
  • A nature-respectful seasonal meal plan.

With the arrival of summer, I, like many of us struggled to

  • Balance my desire for simple living with the
  • Need to enjoy lifestyle amenities to enjoy the weather comfortably!

Fortunately, there are a variety of methods that we can use to live a simplistic sustainable summer, without sacrificing our enjoyment of the warm weather.

My long-coated dogs survived and also enjoyed last summer with the holistic support of Bach Flower nourishment and Reiki energy.

I practise such methods by which to reduce the use of Earth’s natural resources

including reducing my carbon footprint

FastForward ⏩⏩to today🎉🎉🎉⤵️

I am relaxed, cherish a simple lifestyle my family,

enjoy client conversations, have money to spend and savings in the bank. All because of my dogs 😆😅🤣🐶🐶

This free resource is for you; a fellow dog parent who

  • 🚧Is successful yet searching for answers
  • 🏧Has an ambitious career path yet feels an emptiness inside
  • 💤Likes their family yet feels that ‘zing’ is missing

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Ever since Blossom came home as a 2 month

old puppy in April 2018, I have been fascinated by her intelligence and unique personality.

Family dogs have been a part of our lives for

centuries, our loyal companions and very best friends.

When our normally gentle; loving fur babies display

temperamental behaviors, it is hurtful, puzzling and difficult

to understand. Which makes it hard to look for a resolution.

This struggle is what led me to

explore, learn, study and practise telepathic conversations.

AKA dog whisperer.

Like this video on my YouTube channel talks about my own journey as a

new dog parent and how telepathy helps me parent my dogs better ⤵️

Well, thanks for stopping by 😃

🔦Do you know a busy, stuck and stressed out dog parent who
will Really Benefit from knowing about us?

Care to share this web-page with them?! Thank you!

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